The Right Way To Say The Wrong Things

 When You Don't Have Something Good To Say I'm sure that everyone has heard the saying, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all".  That logic can be applied to many things: if you don't have anything interesting to say, positive to say, beneficial to say, and so on. Imagine … Continue reading The Right Way To Say The Wrong Things

Feeling “Meh”…

Take Control And Make The Necessary Changes From time to time we all experience the "meh" emotion, also known as "blah" or "eh".  Basically, that feeling means that you have no feeling about about anything at that time.  You have no ambition, interest, or enthusiasm.  You can neither inspire nor be inspired.  It happens sometimes, … Continue reading Feeling “Meh”…

The Duality of Real Life And Dreams

What's Real? What Isn't? Ever since I was a young child (maybe about 5 years old), I've always wondered: what if this is all a dream? What if none of this is really happening? What if I am really asleep?  I don't know why I felt that way at such a young age.  Maybe I … Continue reading The Duality of Real Life And Dreams

Celebrating Life

Don't Allow Grief To Consume You The third anniversary of the physical passing of Prince is quickly approaching (April 21st).  I know that a lot of my Prince fam will have a hard time on  that day.  My heart goes out to the whole tribe, because it's definitely still very unbelievable and hard to accept.  … Continue reading Celebrating Life

6 Reasons Why Today Is Wonderful

Today Is Awesome! Things go awry pretty often, and we find ourselves engrossed in untangling life's ups, downs, and spirals.  And, when disaster strikes, it seems as though the catastrophe is bigger than life itself.  We sulk and stew for hours and even days about what just unexpectedly (or expectedly) went wrong. We Experience More … Continue reading 6 Reasons Why Today Is Wonderful

Accepting Your Choices

Your Results Are Based On Your Choices I spoke with a very dear friend earlier, who was in a very dark place.  He was saying and doing irrational things.  The bottomline was that he wanted out -- of this life.  Since I've been in that situation several times in my 43 years, I completely understood … Continue reading Accepting Your Choices

Waiting On The Signs

Sometimes, Things Really Are What They Are **A Note To Myself Have you ever wanted something so badly, that you took every little thing as a sign, for or against it?  No matter how unrealistic these "signs" may be, you totally believe them.  And, over time, you drive yourself friggen crazy with these "signs" that … Continue reading Waiting On The Signs

Don’t Doubt Your Standards

Don't Compromise Your Standards It was nice outside today, so I decided to et my mail (yes, I only get my mail when the weather is nice).  As I began walking, I noticed a guy looking at me.  It was uncomfortable for me, because I thought he might try to talk to me, and I … Continue reading Don’t Doubt Your Standards

Don’t Wait For The Right Time. Just Go For It!

The Right Time Is Always NOW! I"m sure that everyone has heard the saying "Timing is everything".  Sometimes, that's very true.  There are many times when we stumble upon great things, opportunities, and even people that we weren't expecting, just by happenstance.  As I've said in the past, like attracts like.  So, if you're giving … Continue reading Don’t Wait For The Right Time. Just Go For It!

3 Reasons Why It’s Not As Bad As It Seems

Problems Are Only As Big As You Believe They Are If you've lived long enough, I'm sure that there have been times when it seemed that the whole planet was crumbling around you, and that the current catastrophe was all your fault.  You felt as though you had no control, things were going badly, and … Continue reading 3 Reasons Why It’s Not As Bad As It Seems